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回答柔和--戴元涔牧師

3/26/2017

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​回答柔和,使怒消退;言語暴戾,觸動怒氣。(箴言15:1)
 
《靈命日糧》曾經刊載這麼一個故事:我的車子在波士頓市中心區的隧道內拋錨了,而那時正是交通繁忙時段。憤怒的司機把車開過我身邊時,都表達出強烈的不滿。車子被送進修車廠修理後,沒多久又壞了。清晨兩點鐘,我被困在州際公路上,最後車子又被拖到同一家修車廠。
不巧,由於當時正舉辦紅襪隊棒球賽,該修車廠也充當停車場,讓球迷停車。隔天下班後,我到修車廠取車,竟然發現我的車被困在30輛車子當中。
一開始,我大聲咆哮、暴跳如雷。但是,我發現這樣的行徑只會讓工作人員更不願意在即將下班時來幫助我。於是,我又衝到辦公室玻璃門前,拼命地要他們把門打開。當裡面的工作人員嘲笑我的舉止時,讓我更加火冒三丈!
最後我終於發現,自己的行為舉止實在沒有基督的樣式。於是,我走上前去,輕輕地敲著那已上鎖的玻璃門,溫和地以嘴型對裡面的工作人員說:「對不起!」他們都很吃驚。於是他們開門讓我進去。我溫和地告訴他們,基督徒實在不應該有像我剛才那樣的舉止。幾分鐘之後,他們移動停車場的車輛,好讓我的車子可以出來。這次讓我學習到一個教訓:『回答柔和,使怒消退;言語暴戾,觸動怒氣。』溫柔的話語比粗暴惡劣的言詞,更能改變整個情況。
願我在怒氣中找著,能控制唇舌的力量;
當我軟弱無法做到,求主賜我道歉勇氣。Kilgore
柔和的回答,往往能打動剛硬的心。
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